Help! Afraid I may not get any cucumbers

[HollerinRat]

I can not figure out what is attacking my cucumbers. None of my books mention anything like this. They are tiny worms that look like half centimeter (or small) light brown threads. They (or something I'm not seeing) are eating the stamens and pistols out of my cucumber blossoms. Grrrr I've been using Neem Oil but that doesn't seem to deter them or the earwigs infesting the plants. Could they be earwig larvae? I've been trying to hand pollinate but not finding much to use. I usually find 2-3 of these teeny guys inside each blossom. The seems to love pollen. They don't usually munch on the girls until I've pollinated them with a rare unchewed male blossom. They they run to them. So frustrating.