tomato disaster...help identify

[Mknzgclmn]

my husband and I moved last fall and I set up brand new raised gardens with all new soil (1/3 compost, 1/3 peat moss and 1/3 vermiculite). I planted my tomatoes and they have been RAVAGED. I thought it was aphids so I sprayed down with soap and water. I also see catipullar poop. I have eggs on the back of some of my leaves, some with a web over it. some are white eggs and some are dark ages. there is larvae too. I released lady bugs for a few days now but they don't seem to be sticking around.
any help identifying my critters and how to eradicate...they are moving to my cucumber and green bean leaves. 😞

I could only upload one photo but I have more photos.